This blog is maybe too personal, but I am almost 50, and you start to stop caring about keeping secrets at my age.
I lived in Singapore in my 20s as a reporter. I respected the local women. I went to Thailand on vacation, scuba diving and beaches. I met a local woman, half Thai, half Japanese. We went on a few dates and she gave me a hickey I think my boss noticed when I got back. Haha.
I know there is a “sex tourist” cliche about Western men in Thailand, but I think we really liked each other. She was my first, and I tried to find her later. But she was gone.