On secrets
There was a saying in the news business, “no secrets”. I was a bit concerned by it because total transparency can damage national security.
“No secrets” is also a motto in psychiatry and therapy, and of course in religious confession you are not supposed to hold back anything badly wrong you may have done from the priest.
I guess one of the problems is you start becoming self-destructive or hurting others if you keep a lot of secrets.
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